WHO YOU BECOME AROUND THEM
A self-led, downloadable worksheet for kids to choose better friendships, drop the drama, and grow into leaders…not followers.
Who You Become Around Them is a 90-minute self-guided workbook that helps your child:
- Reflect on the friends they’re spending time with
- Get clear on who they become in each friendship
- Recognize when they’re performing, pleasing, or shifting their identity to fit in
- See which friendships bring out their best..and which ones don’t
- Build the internal compass to choose better, without being told to
You can’t control every kid your child meets. But you can help them see who’s pulling the worst out in them and guide them back into integrity.
This is for you if...
- Your child is starting to play out behaviors that are getting them into trouble
- You’ve seen them get caught in drama, bullying, or weird social dynamics
- You’ve noticed them acting completely different around certain kids
- You want them to think critically about their friendships without you having to say it for them
- You believe in raising self-aware, emotionally intelligent humans- not just obedient ones
Whats Inside?
1. Guided journaling prompts
Written in kid-language but deep enough to shift how they see themselves and their friends.
2. The “Friendship Mirror”
Activity They’ll map out who they hang with and explore how they feel around each person, what version of them shows up, and whether that friendship brings out the best in them
3. Self-Awareness Visualisation
A creative process to meet the “little version” of themselves inside- the one who acts out, fits in, or stays quiet…and find out what he/she is really needing.
4. Future Self Blueprint
They’ll design the kind of person they actually want to be and reflect on which friendships support that, and which ones don’t.
Written in kid-language but deep enough to shift how they see themselves and their friends.
2. The “Friendship Mirror”
Activity They’ll map out who they hang with and explore how they feel around each person, what version of them shows up, and whether that friendship brings out the best in them
3. Self-Awareness Visualisation
A creative process to meet the “little version” of themselves inside- the one who acts out, fits in, or stays quiet…and find out what he/she is really needing.
4. Future Self Blueprint
They’ll design the kind of person they actually want to be and reflect on which friendships support that, and which ones don’t.
WHAT “WHO YOU BECOME AROUND THEM” WILL GIVE YOU THE PARENT
- A powerful 90-minute guided workbook your child can do alone
- Simple, structured prompts to help them think deeply about their friends, behaviour, and patterns
- A chance for your child to become self-aware and make good choices on their own
- A proactive way to course-correct…without conflict, shame, or “I told you so” energy
- A tool you can keep forever anytime you see your child getting lost in the wrong crowd
WHAT “WHO YOU BECOME AROUND THEM” WILL GIVE YOUR KID
- A chance to reflect without being talked down to
- Real questions that make them think and come to the answers on their own
- Space to explore who they really want to be…without their mates in the room
- A sense of power, not punishment Tools to contemplate what friendships bring out the best in them
You can’t force them to choose better friends. But you can give them the awareness that helps them do it on their own. This worksheet will give them the breakthrough to be able to do that.
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RECOMMENDED FOR 8+ years old.
PS- Parents you’ll love these exercises as much as you kid. I guarantee you’ll do it as well!
GET INSTANT ACCESS.
No shipping needed.
Start today.
RECOMMENDED FOR 8+ years old.
PS- Parents you’ll love these exercises as much as you kid. I guarantee you’ll do it as well!
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QUESTIONS:
- What age is this suitable for?This worksheet is designed for kids aged 8 and up, but it can be powerful for tweens and even teens too. The prompts are written in age-appropriate language that encourages deep thinking without being too complex.
- How do we access the worksheet?You’ll get instant access via a Google Doc link right after purchase. No shipping, no waiting. You can download, print, or complete it digitally—whatever works best for your child.
- Does my child need to do this with a parent?Nope! This is a self-guided experience designed for your child to complete on their own. That said, you’re welcome to sit alongside them or go through it together if that feels supportive for your family.
- What exactly will my child walk away with?They’ll gain real clarity on:
- Who they become in different friendships
- What behaviors are theirs vs. what’s influenced by others
- What kind of person they want to be
- How to choose relationships that bring out their best
- They’ll walk away more self-aware, confident, and better equipped to navigate friendships with integrity.
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Neither SHADOW QUEEN PTE. LTD. nor Felicity Morgan Ludlow can or do guarantee results with any courses, programs, masterminds, coaching, teachings, strategies, or information. Your results are dependent on your own effort, actions, and circumstances.
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This program is non-refundable.
If you are on a payment plan, you are obligated to complete all payments in full, on the dates agreed, regardless of how or whether you utilise the program.
Late or missed payments will result in removal of access until payments are brought back into good standing.
If you request a change to your payment plan, a USD $20.99 admin fee will apply.
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